Welcome to FreeCashMoneyGifts! Free $2 Bous
http://www.freecashmoneygifts.com/members/register.php?ref=serian168
http://partners.ximmy.com/idevaffiliate.php?id=784 Earn Cash @ home
http://www.myhpf.co.uk/apply001.asp?Friend=114612 Earn Cash @ home
Wednesday, July 16, 2008
Wednesday, July 2, 2008
1.The Ultimate Man's Guide to Online Dating
Part One: Why Online Dating?
Brief Overview: On our first day we will discuss how Online dating works (and why it works) as we begin to put you on the path to meeting the right kind of women no matter what kind of relationships you are looking for.
Can I really meet women by using Online dating sites? Yes you can. There are literally 1000’s of women out there using Online dating to find exactly the same things you are looking for. And that doesn’t only mean women who are looking for a soul mate or long-term relationship. There are lots of women who use the web to safely hook up for more, shall we say “casual encounters”.
In some ways Online dating is harder for men then in the real world, mainly due to the disproportionate amount of men to women who use Online dating sites, but in other ways when you know the ropes, Online dating can actually be infinitely easier for men then meeting women in the real world. In fact many men who have used the techniques we will outline in this course report meeting and dating as many as 10 times more women then they did using more conventional methods. That is what this course is all about – to give you the training and the tools you need to meet more women Online, and find whatever it is you may be looking for: companionship, casual dating, great sex, or even that ever elusive life-long soul-mate.
The Anxiety Factor
Fear and a lack of confidence. For men that are not meeting or dating the amount or type of women they want, it’s the number one limiting factor. Psychologists agree that fear of rejection is very strong in males much more than in females. On the other hand actual fear for personal safety and security is what keeps most women leery of being approached by men, and keeps many quality women at home instead of out in bars or other places to mingle and meet.
One of the greatest advantages of Online dating is that it eliminates almost all of the factors that can make dating in “real life” so anxiety producing.
First-up personal safety. Despite the horror stories you may have heard about how unsafe meeting someone through Online dating can be, the truth is Online dating can actually be safer then dating in the “real world”, and that is why actually more and more women are using Online dating. We will show you how to approach these women, and use sites that make them comfortable such as http://www.drdating.com/Match-MaleeCourse and http://www.drdating.com/True-MaleeCourse because they require memberships and thoroughly screen their applicants. We will discuss safety, security and how not to scare women off at length in later chapters.
Dating anxiety also means not wanting to leave your “comfort zone”. Chalk one up again for Online dating –where you never have to leave the comfort of your own home to meet and chat with quality and interesting women, not to mention that you can do so unshaven, sitting on your couch in your underwear, drinking a cold one. Traditional dating also causes anxiety because of time pressures. Can’t make “Happy Hour”? or the time of that singles event conflicts with a project deadline or business meeting? No stress there either – Online dating means you can cruise profiles anytime you want. You’re in complete control of the schedule.
Finally Online dating virtually eliminates the dating dread that keeps so many men home alone on a Saturday night – The Fear of Rejection. Online dating can be practically “rejection free” once you learn the techniques. That is one of the benefits that make Online dating so exciting. Now that is not to say you will not ever be “turned down” Online – but the anxiety that you feel, that makes it too difficult to approach that gorgeous gal in accounting in person, is not there in cyberspace.
Furthermore, cyberspace is the ultimate “Test Track. You can use Online dating to try over and over again, until you hone your skills and figure out what works for you. In fact most men report that the successful interactions they have experienced though Online dating have boosted their confidence and self esteem to the point that they are now more outgoing and willing to take risks even in more traditional social settings.
Openness and Leveling the Playing Field
Another huge benefit of Online dating is that the Internet is the ultimate leveler. With your properly designed profile up on a dozen sites, you no longer have to worry about the competition. You don’t have to dress a certain way, or stand out from the crowd in a bar or event – you are free to be you. As we show you in later chapters how to write a targeted profile – you will build interactions with women that are interested in the same things you are.
It is far easier to be open and honest on the Internet, and dating experts agree women find honesty a turn on. Remember the “comfort zone”? That certain level of anonymity that the Internet provides lets people be a lot more open, conversation tends to get more intimate more rapidly Online. Women especially once they have gained a certainly level of trust with you, which we will show you how to accomplish– certainly will reveal more about themselves quicker Online then they will in face-to-face encounters - which will allow you and her to know that much more quickly if you really have found a match.
Time and Money
Online dating is never a waste of time - because you choose to spend as little or as much time as you want with anyone you are interested in, or has expressed interest in you, on a dating site. Online dating gives you the remarkable ability to flex time. With all due respect to astrophysicists, time is meaningless in cyberspace, you do not have to be in a certain place at a certain time to meet someone. Once your profile has been posted, you can be fast asleep or in a heavy duty business meeting, while some woman is reading about you and has just decided they are dying to meet you. As far as money goes, while the sites we will discuss all have some kind of monthly subscription fee after a free trial, such as Yahoo Personals, membership fees are much more cost effective than “traditional” dating – the cost of dinner, drinks, and a movie on one bad or wasted date more than covers the monthly membership fee to any of the sites we will discuss.
Supply and Demand
It’s a basic economic principal, and why Online dating is vastly superior to trying to meet people through other means. You have access to literally tens of thousands of single women that are all looking for the same things you are, be it companionship, a long-term relationship. Or even something a little more titillating like at http://www.drdating.com/SexSearch-MaleeCourse or http://www.drdating.com/AdultFriendFinder-MaleeCourse.
When it comes right down to it Online dating really is the safest, simplest, most cost effective, anxiety- free -and really downright fun way to meet women today.
Tomorrow we will get down to the nitty-gritty and review 6 of the top sites and explore some tips on creating a profile that will make women want to meet you.
Brief Overview: On our first day we will discuss how Online dating works (and why it works) as we begin to put you on the path to meeting the right kind of women no matter what kind of relationships you are looking for.
Can I really meet women by using Online dating sites? Yes you can. There are literally 1000’s of women out there using Online dating to find exactly the same things you are looking for. And that doesn’t only mean women who are looking for a soul mate or long-term relationship. There are lots of women who use the web to safely hook up for more, shall we say “casual encounters”.
In some ways Online dating is harder for men then in the real world, mainly due to the disproportionate amount of men to women who use Online dating sites, but in other ways when you know the ropes, Online dating can actually be infinitely easier for men then meeting women in the real world. In fact many men who have used the techniques we will outline in this course report meeting and dating as many as 10 times more women then they did using more conventional methods. That is what this course is all about – to give you the training and the tools you need to meet more women Online, and find whatever it is you may be looking for: companionship, casual dating, great sex, or even that ever elusive life-long soul-mate.
The Anxiety Factor
Fear and a lack of confidence. For men that are not meeting or dating the amount or type of women they want, it’s the number one limiting factor. Psychologists agree that fear of rejection is very strong in males much more than in females. On the other hand actual fear for personal safety and security is what keeps most women leery of being approached by men, and keeps many quality women at home instead of out in bars or other places to mingle and meet.
One of the greatest advantages of Online dating is that it eliminates almost all of the factors that can make dating in “real life” so anxiety producing.
First-up personal safety. Despite the horror stories you may have heard about how unsafe meeting someone through Online dating can be, the truth is Online dating can actually be safer then dating in the “real world”, and that is why actually more and more women are using Online dating. We will show you how to approach these women, and use sites that make them comfortable such as http://www.drdating.com/Match-MaleeCourse and http://www.drdating.com/True-MaleeCourse because they require memberships and thoroughly screen their applicants. We will discuss safety, security and how not to scare women off at length in later chapters.
Dating anxiety also means not wanting to leave your “comfort zone”. Chalk one up again for Online dating –where you never have to leave the comfort of your own home to meet and chat with quality and interesting women, not to mention that you can do so unshaven, sitting on your couch in your underwear, drinking a cold one. Traditional dating also causes anxiety because of time pressures. Can’t make “Happy Hour”? or the time of that singles event conflicts with a project deadline or business meeting? No stress there either – Online dating means you can cruise profiles anytime you want. You’re in complete control of the schedule.
Finally Online dating virtually eliminates the dating dread that keeps so many men home alone on a Saturday night – The Fear of Rejection. Online dating can be practically “rejection free” once you learn the techniques. That is one of the benefits that make Online dating so exciting. Now that is not to say you will not ever be “turned down” Online – but the anxiety that you feel, that makes it too difficult to approach that gorgeous gal in accounting in person, is not there in cyberspace.
Furthermore, cyberspace is the ultimate “Test Track. You can use Online dating to try over and over again, until you hone your skills and figure out what works for you. In fact most men report that the successful interactions they have experienced though Online dating have boosted their confidence and self esteem to the point that they are now more outgoing and willing to take risks even in more traditional social settings.
Openness and Leveling the Playing Field
Another huge benefit of Online dating is that the Internet is the ultimate leveler. With your properly designed profile up on a dozen sites, you no longer have to worry about the competition. You don’t have to dress a certain way, or stand out from the crowd in a bar or event – you are free to be you. As we show you in later chapters how to write a targeted profile – you will build interactions with women that are interested in the same things you are.
It is far easier to be open and honest on the Internet, and dating experts agree women find honesty a turn on. Remember the “comfort zone”? That certain level of anonymity that the Internet provides lets people be a lot more open, conversation tends to get more intimate more rapidly Online. Women especially once they have gained a certainly level of trust with you, which we will show you how to accomplish– certainly will reveal more about themselves quicker Online then they will in face-to-face encounters - which will allow you and her to know that much more quickly if you really have found a match.
Time and Money
Online dating is never a waste of time - because you choose to spend as little or as much time as you want with anyone you are interested in, or has expressed interest in you, on a dating site. Online dating gives you the remarkable ability to flex time. With all due respect to astrophysicists, time is meaningless in cyberspace, you do not have to be in a certain place at a certain time to meet someone. Once your profile has been posted, you can be fast asleep or in a heavy duty business meeting, while some woman is reading about you and has just decided they are dying to meet you. As far as money goes, while the sites we will discuss all have some kind of monthly subscription fee after a free trial, such as Yahoo Personals, membership fees are much more cost effective than “traditional” dating – the cost of dinner, drinks, and a movie on one bad or wasted date more than covers the monthly membership fee to any of the sites we will discuss.
Supply and Demand
It’s a basic economic principal, and why Online dating is vastly superior to trying to meet people through other means. You have access to literally tens of thousands of single women that are all looking for the same things you are, be it companionship, a long-term relationship. Or even something a little more titillating like at http://www.drdating.com/SexSearch-MaleeCourse or http://www.drdating.com/AdultFriendFinder-MaleeCourse.
When it comes right down to it Online dating really is the safest, simplest, most cost effective, anxiety- free -and really downright fun way to meet women today.
Tomorrow we will get down to the nitty-gritty and review 6 of the top sites and explore some tips on creating a profile that will make women want to meet you.
2.The Ultimate Man's Guide to Online Dating
This summary is not available. Please
click here to view the post.
Tuesday, July 1, 2008
3.The Ultimate Man's Guide to Online Dating
Part Three: Increasing the Odds
Yesterday we took a look at 7 of the top Online dating sites for men. Now we are going to see how to get more interactions and more dates with the kind of women you want, no matter which site you choose, and look a little deeper into David DeAngelo’s program for meeting more women Online
Many of the things that hold men back when it comes to dating in the real world, can hold them back in Online dating too, if they do not remember to leave those things behind when in cyberspace. The biggest mistake men make in letting the right woman get away is not taking advantage of all opportunities when they are right in front of them - this is as true Online as in reality. The men who are the most successful at Online dating make use of every tool that the site they are using offers them. You probably signed up for a given site because you liked their particular features – use them. Yes it is true that your profile can work to bring women to you, but if you really want to increase the odds you have to stack the deck a bit.
E-mails
E-mails are one of the primary methods of contact when using Online dating services. Again do not carry that awkwardness or the reservations you may have about approaching women in the real world Online – you have the opportunity here to correspond with so many potential partners that you really have nothing to lose. Do not fret over that great “opening line”. Ask a simple question that will have to elicit a response, don’t try so hard to be “original”. Relationship expert David Deangelo, author of Meeting Women Online, says attempts at originality in e-mails are just the opposite – what you think is an original line has been used by dozens of previous senders. Believe it or not a simple “where are you from” – if that is not in their profile can be a great conversation starter for an Online date. Do not be overtly flirty or sexual in e-mails (again not unless you are on an adult site, but even here there can be rules governing obscenity and offensiveness). Be brief – do not ramble and “go on” about yourself. Remember especially if you are really interested in somebody, with some of the barriers down that exist in real meeting situations, there can be a tendency to come on too strong Online. Relax and take your time to build mutual interest. Don’t be overly gushing or complimentary, after all you hardly know this person – yet.
David DeAngelo says one of the keys to Online communicating and to doubling or tripling the number of women you meet on line is to be “Cocky and Funny.” It is part of the classic “take away strategy” of sales pros. Using it you can approach any woman Online in such a way that you playfully, but humorously poke fun at them and make them feel that they should be honored to be communicating with you, not the other way around. Then once you have their interest you back away in just the right way – that leaves them dying to hear from you again. David understands that women are “wired” different than men and says this style of communication actual triggers attraction in women on a subconscious and primal level. We will discuss more on “Cocky and Funny” and other sure-fire Online communications techniques in our next chapter.
Make it Part of Your Routine
Another big mistake a lot of men make, is signing up for an Online dating site and then not taking the time to use it. That is like paying for a Gym membership and then never going. Men today have very busy lives - that is part of what makes it difficult to meet women in the first place, but success with Online dating takes a certain amount of discipline to use the tools at your disposal. The best way to do that is to build your Online dating time into your daily routine. That means a specific half-hour a day set aside in the morning before work, after work, or during your lunch hour (be careful not to be cruising dating sites while at work). Log on and look at profiles, write or respond to e-mails, or update your own profile. Like in any game the best way to increase your odds of winning is to play more often. All of the sites we mentioned always have updates and tips and relevant articles about Online dating, you never know when spending some time reading those will result in gaining that little piece of info that helps you get that next date.
What The Pros Have to Say
Liz H. Kelly dating coach, and Author of The Fast Track Dating Guide for finding Mr. or Ms Right offers several tips for Online “flirting” with e-mails. First and foremost she says to have fun, and be humorous, it may sound like an old cliché started by desperate male stand up comics but studies show that women really do love a man with a sense of humor. Liz also suggests that you look carefully at a woman’s photo and ask a specific question about a detail in the picture – “Like what were the winters like going to school in Boston” if she happens to be wearing a “B.U.” sweatshirt – it shows you care about details and notice things, a quality woman like. Same thing goes for asking a specific question about something in their profile – like how “long have you been playing guitar” or if she says she likes “red wine and fireplaces” ask what her favorite Cabernet is.
Here’s another helpful tip the pros recommend – change with the seasons. Update your profile with seasonal references like special holiday memories or specific winter/summer activities you enjoy – this may not only help you click with that special someone, it also shows women on the site that you are active and not sticking with a stagnant profile. Laurie Puhn, communications specialist and author of Instant Persuasion says, “By inserting a seasonal reference in there, you give people a reason to get in touch…” She ads however “Don’t forget to change your holiday specific headline or holiday references back as soon as the festivities are over” or you’ll end up looking like a slacker.
All experts agree that the number one way to increase your odds at a successful Online experience is to have clear goals as to what you are looking for, be honest with yourself about your dating desires and act appropriately. If marriage is your ultimate goal then you really have no business communicating with a member who is clearly in no position to settle down. On the other hand you may be just looking for a casual dining companion, but you need to respect that some people are on the site seeking something more serious. Now that is not to say that you need to spell out your goals in your profile, you just need to be honest with yourself and act with honor and integrity once it becomes clear you and your date are on different wavelengths. That way, everyone involved will be on track to finding who and what they are looking for that much quicker.
In tomorrow’s e-mail we will discuss in greater detail the tools and techniques to attract women with more effective Online communications
Due to the limitation of my posting here, there are 4 more days article to view. Interest please email to moretips@gmail.com
Yesterday we took a look at 7 of the top Online dating sites for men. Now we are going to see how to get more interactions and more dates with the kind of women you want, no matter which site you choose, and look a little deeper into David DeAngelo’s program for meeting more women Online
Many of the things that hold men back when it comes to dating in the real world, can hold them back in Online dating too, if they do not remember to leave those things behind when in cyberspace. The biggest mistake men make in letting the right woman get away is not taking advantage of all opportunities when they are right in front of them - this is as true Online as in reality. The men who are the most successful at Online dating make use of every tool that the site they are using offers them. You probably signed up for a given site because you liked their particular features – use them. Yes it is true that your profile can work to bring women to you, but if you really want to increase the odds you have to stack the deck a bit.
E-mails
E-mails are one of the primary methods of contact when using Online dating services. Again do not carry that awkwardness or the reservations you may have about approaching women in the real world Online – you have the opportunity here to correspond with so many potential partners that you really have nothing to lose. Do not fret over that great “opening line”. Ask a simple question that will have to elicit a response, don’t try so hard to be “original”. Relationship expert David Deangelo, author of Meeting Women Online, says attempts at originality in e-mails are just the opposite – what you think is an original line has been used by dozens of previous senders. Believe it or not a simple “where are you from” – if that is not in their profile can be a great conversation starter for an Online date. Do not be overtly flirty or sexual in e-mails (again not unless you are on an adult site, but even here there can be rules governing obscenity and offensiveness). Be brief – do not ramble and “go on” about yourself. Remember especially if you are really interested in somebody, with some of the barriers down that exist in real meeting situations, there can be a tendency to come on too strong Online. Relax and take your time to build mutual interest. Don’t be overly gushing or complimentary, after all you hardly know this person – yet.
David DeAngelo says one of the keys to Online communicating and to doubling or tripling the number of women you meet on line is to be “Cocky and Funny.” It is part of the classic “take away strategy” of sales pros. Using it you can approach any woman Online in such a way that you playfully, but humorously poke fun at them and make them feel that they should be honored to be communicating with you, not the other way around. Then once you have their interest you back away in just the right way – that leaves them dying to hear from you again. David understands that women are “wired” different than men and says this style of communication actual triggers attraction in women on a subconscious and primal level. We will discuss more on “Cocky and Funny” and other sure-fire Online communications techniques in our next chapter.
Make it Part of Your Routine
Another big mistake a lot of men make, is signing up for an Online dating site and then not taking the time to use it. That is like paying for a Gym membership and then never going. Men today have very busy lives - that is part of what makes it difficult to meet women in the first place, but success with Online dating takes a certain amount of discipline to use the tools at your disposal. The best way to do that is to build your Online dating time into your daily routine. That means a specific half-hour a day set aside in the morning before work, after work, or during your lunch hour (be careful not to be cruising dating sites while at work). Log on and look at profiles, write or respond to e-mails, or update your own profile. Like in any game the best way to increase your odds of winning is to play more often. All of the sites we mentioned always have updates and tips and relevant articles about Online dating, you never know when spending some time reading those will result in gaining that little piece of info that helps you get that next date.
What The Pros Have to Say
Liz H. Kelly dating coach, and Author of The Fast Track Dating Guide for finding Mr. or Ms Right offers several tips for Online “flirting” with e-mails. First and foremost she says to have fun, and be humorous, it may sound like an old cliché started by desperate male stand up comics but studies show that women really do love a man with a sense of humor. Liz also suggests that you look carefully at a woman’s photo and ask a specific question about a detail in the picture – “Like what were the winters like going to school in Boston” if she happens to be wearing a “B.U.” sweatshirt – it shows you care about details and notice things, a quality woman like. Same thing goes for asking a specific question about something in their profile – like how “long have you been playing guitar” or if she says she likes “red wine and fireplaces” ask what her favorite Cabernet is.
Here’s another helpful tip the pros recommend – change with the seasons. Update your profile with seasonal references like special holiday memories or specific winter/summer activities you enjoy – this may not only help you click with that special someone, it also shows women on the site that you are active and not sticking with a stagnant profile. Laurie Puhn, communications specialist and author of Instant Persuasion says, “By inserting a seasonal reference in there, you give people a reason to get in touch…” She ads however “Don’t forget to change your holiday specific headline or holiday references back as soon as the festivities are over” or you’ll end up looking like a slacker.
All experts agree that the number one way to increase your odds at a successful Online experience is to have clear goals as to what you are looking for, be honest with yourself about your dating desires and act appropriately. If marriage is your ultimate goal then you really have no business communicating with a member who is clearly in no position to settle down. On the other hand you may be just looking for a casual dining companion, but you need to respect that some people are on the site seeking something more serious. Now that is not to say that you need to spell out your goals in your profile, you just need to be honest with yourself and act with honor and integrity once it becomes clear you and your date are on different wavelengths. That way, everyone involved will be on track to finding who and what they are looking for that much quicker.
In tomorrow’s e-mail we will discuss in greater detail the tools and techniques to attract women with more effective Online communications
Due to the limitation of my posting here, there are 4 more days article to view. Interest please email to moretips@gmail.com
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)
